Human Development: Extra Credit
Opportunity
B. Ruth Hitchcock
My
sister was only nineteen years old when she spiraled into severe depression and
began slashing her knuckles and arms with razor blades. After suffering an
emotional breakdown, she was forced to drop out of college, and was eventually
diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder. One day, I
came into her room to find that she had overdosed on her medication. She spent
the following two nights in the hospital, leaving my family to tremble in our
prayers. Today, several years later, my sister is recently married and is
voluntarily participating in three psychoanalysis sessions a week. However, I
still look back on that period of her life with a mind full of unanswered
questions and deeply felt concerns.
In
the textbook, Development Across the Life
Span, Feldman states that, “suicide is the third most common cause of death
in the 15- to 24-year-old age group… (Feldman, 2010). Although studies indicate
that the choice to commit suicide is becoming a more common one for this particular
population, there is no one single explanation for this increase. According to
the article, Preventive health counseling
for adolescents, the “risk factors for suicide in adolescents
include active substance abuse, personal history of depression... [and] problems
communicating with parents (Stephens, 2006).” Adolescents that tend to be
antagonistic, impetuous, and highly isolated from their primary sources of
support may also experience suicidal ideations (Bridge, Goldstien, Tina, &
Brent, (2002).
Adolescents
are liable to take their lives by suffocating, hanging, or shooting themselves
(Stephens, 2006), and often do so under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Needless to say, adolescents that contemplate suicide are almost always in a
stage of heightened distress. As a prospective counselor, it is possible that I
may come into contact with an individual that is seriously considering suicide
as a viable option. In the article, Treatment
of the suicidal adolescent: Death studies, Berman and Jobes state that, at
this point, “the person feels a need to die, and yet yearns for intervention,
rescue, and life (1994).” In learning how reveal to my future clients a sense
of meaning in the midst of such turmoil, I only hope that I can remember that
all individuals, no matter how despairing, are in need of hope.
References:
Feldman, R. S. (2006, 2010) Development across the life span. Upper Saddle River, N.J: Pearson/Prentice Hal
Berman, A., & Jobes, D. (1994). Treatment of the suicidal
adolescent. Death Studies, 18(4), 375-389.
Stephens, M. (2006). Preventive health counseling for
adolescents. American Family Physician, 74(7), 1151-1156.
Bridge, J., Goldstein, T, & Brent, D. (2002). Adolescent suicide and
suicidal behavior. Journal of child
psychology and psychiatry, and allied disciplines, 47(3-4),
Thanks so much for sharing such a painful story that impacts you personally. I can't imagine the staggering feeling of discovering my sister's attempted suicide -- I know that must have been extremely hard for you. I'm glad that your story is a positive one in which your sister is working towards daily improving her mental health. I often wonder as well the factors that reveal an increase in adolescent suicide rates. If I had to guess, I'd suspect the affects of an overwhelming media prescence, peer pressure enhanced by constant contact through social media, and a propensity for families to be much busier and less personally connected in this generation.
ReplyDeleteI want to start off by saying that reading your post was very powerful and very honest. Although my situation was a little different, I too have dealt with someone that was thinking about committing suicide. To listen to someone is that circumstance made me feel like I had no answers. What could I say to a person that was ready to take their life in an instant? What if I was the last person they would ever speak to? These are just a few of the questions that ran through my head. I admire you for looking at the situation and wanting to know more and grow in your understanding of suicide. To be honest, your last statement about bringing hope to people in a desperate time is absolutely true. Thank you so much for sharing!
DeleteRuthie,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry that you had to face that pain of seeing your sister in despair and am thankful that your sister was not successful in her attempt and that she is thriving and under the care of a doctor. Unfortunately, many people in this age range are successful and that is why it is so critical for counselors to understand the challenges and the risks and always be prepared to assess depression levels, do suicide risk assessments, and admit some individuals to the hospital when appropriate.
May the Lord bless you and your family this Christmas.
Dr. K